Sunday, 30 March 2014

Taking care of your mind

I've started to listen to some TED talks while getting ready in the morning, in fact they've virtually become part of my daily routine. I always find them fascinating and inspiring and love how it's possible to type in a keyword and a whole host of talks centered around that theme come up. My theme at the moment is 'happiness' and this morning I listened to a talk by Matthieu Ricard who suggested that happiness comes from within. As someone who has read a fair bit about Buddhism and had on-off love affairs with meditation, this idea didn't come as a surprise to me; but one thing that Matthieu said really struck a chord with me, he said that we are prepared to spend time working out, educating ourselves and looking after our bodies but we don't spend time looking after our minds (meditating). Wow! When I heard that, it hit me that I fall into the category of people that don't look after their minds; I do everything else: working out, eating healthily, taking vitamins, getting enough sleep etc. but my days are filled with such busyness that I rarely take the time to sit and meditate anymore. It's something I often think about but rarely do. But that is going to change, from today I'm going to make the time to look after my mind and spend some time each day meditating. I'm not going to set myself goals of "I'm going to meditate for x amount of time each day" as it's not a competition and I have nothing to prove, it's simply a way for me to create some space and time for myself each day, a quiet place where I can allow myself to unwind.

For anyone curious about what else Matthieu had to say, I've posted the talk below:

 
I hope you find it as inspiring as I did.

Monday, 24 March 2014

A new journey...

Sometimes your life hits the point where you feel completely stuck; you get up every morning, go to work, come home, eat, watch tv and then go to bed before beginning the same cycle the next day.  And life begins to feel somewhat mundane and...well...lifeless. That's the point where I'm at right now. Somewhere along the line, I feel I've become so wrapped up in my work and the day-to-day running of a home, that I've forgotten about the things I love in life. I no longer spend my spare time reading, baking, creating and crafting; instead my days are filled with working and keeping my home in order. Something needs to change. I want to feel inspired again rather than irritated, enthusiastic rather than exhausted.

This blog is my 'fresh start'. It's a place to chart my journey as I create more space for myself within my life and reconnect with the things I love. My previous, rather sporadic blog, can be found here, but my new commitment to myself begins right now. And on that note, before I create some quiet reading time, I think it's important to share this 'Life Manifesto' that I stumbled upon, something that I feel is important to reflect upon:

I hope it inspires you as much as it inspires me.